The children were asked 3 questions

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*SUMMARY OF THE CHILDREN DEPARTMENT MEETING WITH PARENTS 0N 02/10/2023 AT AN ABUJA LIVING FAITH CHURCH*

The children were asked 3 questions

1.   *What are your parents doing that you do not like but afraid to tell them?*

2.  *What would you like them to start doing?*

3.    *What are your little secrets (what yours parents do not know you are involved in and if they were to know, they will be shocked to their bones)?*

The responses of the children were read to those present and there were shocking revelations for everyone of us present.

SOME RESPONSES OF THE CHILDREN ON QUESTION 1

A.      Parents fight and quarrel and insult each other in front of their children

B.      See parents engage in sexual acts and they always think about it.

C.      Parents should stop drinking and smoking.

D.      Parents nag a lot.

E.       Parents rain curses on them when the children make them angry.

F.       Parents cheating (mum on dad and dad on mum) and these children are aware!!!!!

G.      Parents don't have time for them

H.      Parents do not know anything about their children.

I.         Stop comparing them with other children to ridicule them.

J.        Parents watch pornography and some of these children sit with them watching too!!!.

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SOME RESPONSES TO QUESTION 2

A.      Create opportunities for children to freely express themselves.

B.      Have family dinner and a time for family chats

C.      Mum and Dad to love themselves (a lot of them said this).

D.      Call them good names (you shall be great; successful) not curses.

E.      Build confidence in them

F.      Mum should advise us in a good way not telling us to do wrong.

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SOME RESPONSES TO QUESTION 3

A.      Engage in sexual acts with relatives (cousins, brothers. Sisters, aunts), classmates and neighbours

B.      Most are already in relationships

C.      Some teenagers are already dating married men.

D.      Masturbation and watching pornography are rampant

E.      Abuse by school teacher.

F.      Suicidal thoughts

G.      Taking money from parents purse and wallets

H.      Two children said they always have sex and their parents do not know and do not care.

I.        One is contemplating abortion.

J.        Two less than 7year olds girls are already practicing lesbianism

K.      Friends are teaching them sex acts in school

L.      Spy on mum when she is taking her bath most times.

These are but a few of the responses of our children.

We need to do more as parents and our mummy in the house (Local Pastor's Wife) admonished us to be intentional in parenting. Training a child, the way he/she should go is not just paying school fees and providing needs. Parents should be closer to their children and create an enabling environment for these children to freely talk with them.

Our children have been observing us. Its sad to note that most of these responses came from ages 6-12 classes and few from the teens class.

Pls parents, lets try to do more!!! When they want to talk with us, pls lets give them a listening ear. Lets not go after money and fame and lose our children (GOD FORBID).

This message should be forward to all parents and let us wake up to our  responsibilities as we brace up with the challenge of raising Godly children in this depraved world.

God bless you.
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